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THEY SEND ME SEXUALLY INAPPROPRIATE TEXTS
THEY FREQUENTLY BRING THE CONVERSATION BACK TO SEXUALLY SUGGESTIVE TOPICS
THEY SEND OR SHOW ME SEXUALLY EXPLICIT PHOTOS
THEY LOOK AT MY BODY WHILE I'M TALKING (MOUTH, LEGS, BREASTS, BETWEEN LEGS,)
THEY COMPLIMENT MY BODY IN A SEXUAL WAY
I FEEL LIKE HE TALKS ABOUT ME IN A SEXUAL WAY TO OTHERS WHEN I’M NOT AROUND
THEY MAKE SEXUAL COMMENTS ABOUT OTHERS IN FRONT OF ME
THEIR SOCIAL MEDIA HAS A LOT OF SEXUAL OR RISQUE PHOTOS
THEY OFTEN LIKE/COMMENT ON MY SOCIAL MEDIA - FIRST TO WATCH MY STORY
THEIR INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR MAKES ME FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE
THEY MAKE AGGRESSIVE SEXUAL COMMENTS
THEY STARE OR MAKES SEXUAL GRAPHIC COMMENTS ABOUT OTHERS IN FRONT OF ME
THEY DESCRIBE THEIR SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS TO ME AND/OR OTHERS IN GRAPHIC DETAIL
THEY HAVE EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO HAVE A PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP WITH ME
I OFTEN CATCH THEM STARING AT ME
THEY WILL TAG OR FOWARD SEXUALLY INAPPROPRIATE CONENT TO ME
THEY OFTEN POST SEXUAL CONTENT ON SOCIAL MEDIA
THEY CREEP ME OUT
THEY ASK ME TO SEND THEM SEXY PICTURES
I FEEL LIKE THEY ARE ALWAYS AROUND OR FOLLOWING ME
I FEEL LIKE THEY ONLY PAY ATTENTION TO ME IF THE CONVERSATION BECOMES SEXUAL
I FEEL AN INAPPROPRIATE ATTRACTION TO THEM
THEY HAVE TOUCHED ME SEXUALLY BUT NOT AS FAR AS INTERCOURSE
THIS PERSON HAS SEXUALLY ASSAULTED ME
WE ARE CURRENTLY IN A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP, I FEEL LIKE I CAN’T GET OUT
MY FRIENDS OR FAMILY THINK HE IS PERVERTED
THEY ASK ME NOT TO TELL ANYONE ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP
THEY SAY HURTFUL AND UNFORGIVABLE THINGS TO ME AND DON’T CARE IF I GET UPSET
THEY ARE RUDE TO MY FRIENDS, FAMILY OR PEOPLE IMPORTANT TO ME
THEY MAKE BASELESS ACCUSATIONS TOWARD ME
THEY CALL ME NAMES OR SAY CRUEL THINGS
THEY THREATEN ME PHYSICALLY
THEY PUT ME DOWN IN FRONT OF OTHER PEOPLE
THEY CAUSE A SCENE IN PUBLIC OR AT AN EVENT THAT IS IMPORTANT TO ME
THEY YELL AND VERBALLY INTIMIDATE ME
THEY MAKES UP LIES TO PROVOKE ME
WE FIGHT OFTEN
THEY GASLIGHT ME INTO QUESTIONING MY OWN EMOTIONS OR THOUGHTS
WHEN I GET UPSET AT THEM, THEY TURN IT AROUND AND BLAME ME OF BEING DRAMATIC OR TOO SENSITIVE
THEY WON'T ACCEPT BLAME FOR THINGS THAT ARE THEIR FAULT OF ARGUMENTS THAT THEY START
THEY RARELY APOLOGIZE FOR ANYTHING
THEY LIKE TO ARGUE ABOUT EVERYTHING
THEY ARE VINDICTIVE TOWARD THOSE THEY BELIEVE HAVE WRONGED THEM
THEY HOLD A GRUDGE FOREVER
THEY SEEM TO GET SATISFACTION FROM TELLING PEOPLE OFF
THEY SEEM ENTERTAINED BY MAKING PEOPLE UNCOMFORTABLE AND PUSHING THEIR BUTTONS
THEY LIKE TO SAY PEOPLE ARE AFRAID OF THEM AND THEIR TEMPER
THE SMALLEST THINGS CAN SET THEM OFF
I AM ALWAYS NERVOUS I WILL SAY THE WRONG THING
THEY HAVE A BIG TEMPER
I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO FIGHT WITH THEM TO GET THEM TO CARE OR LISTEN
THEY START FIGHTS TO DISTRACT ME WHEN THEY’RE GUILTY OR WHEN I CALL THEM OUT FOR SOMETHING
THEY LEAVE ARGUMENTS BY STORMING OUT
THEY GET ANGRY WHEN THEY DO NOT GET THEIR WAY
I FEEL LIKE THEY’RE BREAKING MY SPIRIT
I FEEL LIKE I'M NEVER SURE WHAT WILL MAKE THEM ANGRY (WALKING ON EGGSHELLS)
IT SEEMS LIKE THEY ARE ALWAYS FIGHTING WITH SOMEONE (FAMILY, FRIENDS, CO-WORKER)
I FEEL LIKE HE'S BREAKING MY SPIRIT
I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO KEEP MY OPINIONS TO MYSELF SO HE WON'T GET ANGRY
I FEEL LIKE I'M NEVER SURE WHAT WILL MAKE HIM ANGRY (WALKING ON EGGSHELLS)
IT SEEMS LIKE HE IS ALWAYS FIGHTING WITH SOMEONE (FAMILY, FRIENDS, CO-WORKER)
THEY COMPLAIN AND POUT WHEN THEY DON’T GET THEIR WAY
I FEEL LIKE I ALWAYS WATCH WHAT THEY WANT TO WATCH ON TV
THEY DON’T TAKE AN INTEREST IN MY LIFE, JOB, OR OPINIONS
THEY NEVER LIKE ANY OF MY SUGGESTIONS
THEY CAN'T BE ALONE OR SIT QUIETLY WITHOUT GETTING BORED OR AGITATED.
THEY HAVE NO INTEREST IN GETTING TO KNOW PEOPLE THAT ARE IMPORTANT TO ME
THEY NEVER ASK ME ANY MEANINGFUL QUESTIONS
THEY MAKE SOCIAL SITUATIONS AWKWARD
THEY TUNE ME OUT OR GET IRRITATED WHEN I'M TALKING TO OTHER PEOPLE
WHEN THEY ARE FEELING GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES WE HAVE LOTS OF FUN AND EXCITEMENT
WE ONLY EVER TALK ABOUT ONLY WHAT THEY WANT TO TALK ABOUT
THEY OFTEN TUNE ME OUT AND ACT UNINTERESTED
THEY ALWAYS NEED SOMETHING TO BE ON TO DISTRACT THEM (TV, INTERNET, SOCIAL MEDIA, ETC)
THEY WILL ISOLATE THEMSELVES WHEN WE ARE OUT WITH OTHERS
I'M ALWAYS FEELING LIKE SOMETHING IS OFF AND HAVE TO ASK THEM WHAT IS WRONG
THEY PRETEND TO NOT FEEL WELL TO GET ATTENTION REFOCUSED ON THEM
THEY WILL INVENT A REASON WHY WE HAVE TO LEAVE AN EVENT WHERE THEY’RE FEELING UNCOMFORTABLE
I FEEL OBLIGATED TO CATER TO THEIR NEEDS
WHENEVER I ASK THEM WHAT'S WRONG I HAVE TO RUN THROUGH A LIST OF ISSUES
I FEEL LIKE THEY’RE ALWAYS UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND UNFAMILIAR PEOPLE
THEY FEEL THREATENED BY MY OR OTHER PEOPLES’ SUCCESS
I FEEL LIKE WE CAN ONLY SPEND TIME AROUND “THEIR PEOPLE.”
THEY’RE ONLY FUN TO BE AROUND IF WE ARE WITH THEIR FRIENDS/FAMILY/CO-WORKERS
I FEEL LIKE EVERYTHING NEEDS TO BE PERFECT IN ORDER FOR THEM TO BE HAPPY.
I FEEL SELF-CONSCIOUS ABOUT WHAT THEY MIGHT CRITICIZE NEXT.
THEY ALWAYS HAS TO MAKE A COMMENT ABOUT EVERYTHING.
THEY SEEMS INCAPABLE OF BEING GENUINELY HAPPY FOR ME
I CANNOT SHARE MY SUCCESSES WITH THEM AS THEY ACT UNIMPRESSED OR THEY DISREGARD IT.
THEY ARE ALWAYS TELLING ME ABOUT THE OTHER PEOPLE THEY SPEND TIME WITH
THEY ARE THE PERSON THAT ALWAYS KNOWS THE GOSSIP
IF THEY DON’T LIKE ME IT CAN MAKE LIFE DIFFICULT IN OUR CIRCLE
THEY WILL SPREAD RUMORS IF THEY DON’T LIKE YOU.
THEY ARE NEVER COMPLETELY FRIENDLY OR NICE SO YOU HAVE TO CONSTANTLY WORK TO PLEASE THEM.
THEY GOSSIP ABOUT OTHERS TO ME AND I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO STAY ON MY “A” GAME
THEY TRY TO MAKE ME JEALOUS OF THEIR LIFESTYLE, CAR, CLOTHES, CLUB MEMBERSHIPS.
THEY WILL BLATANTLY IGNORE SOMETHING I SAID AND TALK TO SOMEONE ELSE AS IF I WASN’T THERE
THEY OPENLY TEXT OTHER PEOPLE IN FRONT OF ME, ONLY HALF LISTENING TO WHAT I’M SAYING
THEY INTERACT WITH OTHERS ON SOCIAL MEDIA, LIKE/COMMENTS ON THEIR POSTS/PICS BUT NOT ON MINE
THEY TRY TO MAKE ME JEALOUS OF OTHER PEOPLE
THEY CREATE A SENSE OF EXCLUSIVITY ABOUT BEING IN THEIR CIRCLE
I FEEL JEALOUS OF THE OTHER PEOPLE THEY TALK TO
IT FEELS EXCITING BEING IN THEIR CIRCLE OR PRESENCE
I FEEL IMPORTANT WHEN I AM AROUND THEM
I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO DRESS A CERTAIN WAY TO FIT IN WITH THEM
THEY COMPARE ME TO OTHERS IN A NEGATIVE WAY IF I’M NOT ACTING THE WAY THEY WANT
THEY WILL ABRUPTLY CUT PEOPLE OUT AND LET YOU KNOW WHY, AS IF TO WARN YOU.
THEY SAY THINGS LIKE “WHY CAN YOU BE MORE LIKE SO AN SO?”
THEY ASK ME TO HANG OUT AND THEN IGNORE ME AND TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE.
THEY CALLED SOMEONE ELSE THEIR BEST FRIEND WHEN THAT USED TO BE ME.
I FEEL LIKE THEY GIVE PEOPLE SPECIAL TREATMENT IF THEY LIVE UP TO THEIR STANDARDS
THEY TELL ME STORIES ABOUT HOW OTHER PEOPLE WANTED TO HANG OUT BUT THEY TURNED THEM DOWN
I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO COMPETE WITH OTHERS TO GET THEIR ATTENTION
I FEEL LIKE THEY BARELY MAKE ENOUGH TIME FOR US TO HANG OUT
I FEEL LIKE THEY HAVE ALL THE POWER AND I HAVE TO WORK TO KEEP THE RELATIONSHIP
I FEEL LIKE OTHER PEOPLE ALWAYS TAKE PRIORITY OVER ME
THEY BRAG ABOUT MY SIBLING BUT RARELY ABOUT ME.
THEY GIVE PRAISE TO OTHERS AND LEAVE ME OUT
THEY FREQUENTLY ACT DEPRESSED OR MOPE
THEY TOLD ME INTIMATE DETAILS OF THEIR LIFE TRAUMAS VERY EARLY ON
THEY GIVE ME THE SILENT TREATMENT
I FEEL SORRY FOR THEM.
I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO GIVE THEM FREQUENT PEP TALKS TO MAKE THEM FEEL BETTER
THEY ARE NOT IN A GOOD MOOD VERY OFTEN
THEY CRY A LOT
I FEEL LIKE I'M ALWAYS TRYING TO SOLVE THEIR PROBLEMS
THEY MAKE ME FEEL GUILTY FOR NOT DOING ENOUGH
THEY ALWAYS SAY THEY DON’T FEEL GOOD ENOUGH FOR (A JOB, RELATIONSHIP, ETC)
THEY TELL ME THAT I DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW HARD EVERYTHING IS FOR THEM
THEIR LIFE SITUATION OR STORIES MAKE ME FEEL SAD FOR THEM
THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED IN IMPROVING THE SITUATIONS THAT ARE MAKING THEM SAD
THEY MAKE ME FEEL GUILTY FOR MY SUCCESS OR HAPPINESS
I FEEL LIKE I AM ALWAYS TRYING TO FIX THEM
THEY USE THEIR PROBLEMS/SAD STORIES AS AN EXCUSE FOR THEIR BAD BEHAVIOR
THEY SAY THEY ARE A BAD FRIEND/SIBLING/CHILD/ETC.
THEY DON’T PUT FORTH ANY EFFORT UNLESS I GET UPSET OR THREATEN NO CONTACT
THEY SAY "I KNOW YOU DON'T NEED ME FOR ANYTHING!”
I FEEL LIKE I CAN'T TALK ABOUT MYSELF BECAUSE IT ALWAYS COMES BACK TO THEM.
THEY SAY THINGS LIKE “I KNOW YOU HAVE BETTER THINGS TO DO THAN TO SPEND TIME WITH ME.”
I'VE CAUGHT THEM FAKE CRYING
I'VE CAUGHT HIM LYING OR EXAGGERATING ABOUT AN ILLNESS
THEY EXPECT ME TO ALWAYS DROP WHAT I'M DOING TO HELP THEM WHEN THEY’RE DOWN ON THEMSELVES, BUT THEY WON'T MAKE ANY EFFORT TO HELP ME WHEN I FEEL SAD OR NEED HELP
I FEEL LIKE I'M SACRIFICING MY OWN NEEDS TO CARRY THEM EMOTIONALLY
I FEEL LIKE IF WE COULD JUST SOLVE THEIR ISSUES THINGS WILL GET BETTER
THEY COMPLAIN THAT EVERYONE IS AGAINST THEM OR THEY HAVE THE WORST LUCK
IT MAKES ME FEEL GOOD TO LIFT THEIR SPIRITS
THEY ACT BORED IF SOMEONE ELSE IS TELLING A STORY AND THE STORY IS NOT ABOUT/INVOLVING THEM
THEY ALWAYS NEED TO BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION
THEY WERE OR ARE WELL-KNOWN AND POPULAR (ATHLETE, POLITICIAN, MUSICIAN, CELEBRITY, ETC)
THEY ALWAYS HAS TO BE AROUND OTHER PEOPLE OR OUT WITH THEIR FRIENDS
THEY ARE ALWAYS LOUD AND ANIMATED WHEN THEY’RE AROUND OTHER PEOPLE WHICH DRAWS ATTENTION TO THEM
THEY BRAG ABOUT THEIR PAST, CURRENT ACHIEVEMENTS OR POPULARITY
THEY EMBELLISH OR OUTRIGHT LIE ABOUT THEIR PAST ACHIEVEMENTS OR POPULARITY
I FEEL LIKE A SPECTATOR WATCHING THEM PERFORM IN FRONT OF OTHERS
THEY MAKE ME FEEL LIKE WHAT THEY ARE DOING IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN WHAT I AM DOING
THEY DO NICE THINGS OR GIVE ME GIFTS BUT IT SEEMS LIKE THEY’RE ONLY DOING IT TO IMPRESS OTHER PEOPLE
THEY ARE ALWAYS INTERRUPTING WHEN OTHER PEOPLE ARE TALKING
THEY ARE ALWAYS TELLING STORIES EVEN IF EVERYONE THERE HAS HEARD THE STORY MANY TIMES
THEY IGNORE ME WHEN WE ARE AROUND OTHER PEOPLE
THEY MAKE ME FEEL LIKE WHATEVER THEY ARE DOING OR SAYING IS MUCH MORE IMPORTANT THAN WHAT I'M DOING OR SAYING
THEY ARE ALWAYS TELLING STORIES ABOUT THINGS THAT INVOLVE THEM
THEY WILL PROMPT OTHERS TO TELL STORIES THAT ARE ABOUT THEM
THEY WILL HIJACK A CONVERSATION WHEN THEY FEELS IT'S TURNING THE ATTENTION AWAY FROM THEM
THEY LIKE PEOPLE TO KNOW THAT THEY TOLD OFF/EMBARRASSED SOMEONE
THEY LIKE PEOPLE TO THINK THAT OTHERS ARE AFRAID OF THEM OR WON'T “CROSS THEM"
THEY NEED PEOPLE TO APOLOGIZE TO THEM, SEEK THEIR FORGIVENESS OR SING THEIR PRAISES IN FRONT OF OTHERS
I FEEL LIKE I CANNOT SHARE MY SUCCESSES WITHOUT THEM ONE UPPING ME
THEY WANT ME OR OTHERS TO ALWAYS WATCH WHAT THEY ARE DOING
THEY BRAGS ABOUT WOMEN/MEN THEY’VE BEEN WITH
THEY TELL INAPPROPRIATE STORIES AT WORK OR IN SOCIAL SITUATIONS
THEY STRUGGLE TO BE ALONE
THEY ARE ALWAYS OUT AND SOCIALIZING EVEN IF IT'S WITH COMPLETE STRANGERS
THEY FORGET TO INTRODUCE ME TO OTHERS
THEY ARE ALWAYS BUSY AND LIKE TO BE “THE"LIFE OF THE PARTY"
I FEEL LIKE THEIR CONFIDENCE IS TIED TO THE IMAGE OTHERS HAVE OF THEM
THEY MAKE ME FEEL INVISIBLE WHEN THERE IS AN AUDIENCE THAT THEY ARE TRYING TO IMPRESS
THEY BLOW ME OFF SO THEY CAN TALK TO SOMEONE THEY THINK IS VERY IMPORTANT
THEY LAUGH TOO HARD AT THEIR OWN JOKES
THEY BRAG ABOUT THE PLACES THEY ARE THE VIP OR HAVE EXCLUSIVE ACCESS
THEY LIKE TO TELL EVERYONE HOW SMART THEY ARE
THEY ARE OBSESSED WITH CLOTHES, CAR, HOME AND OUTWARD APPEARANCES
THEY WILL DISAPPEAR AND THEN POP UP OUT OF NOWHERE AND SAY “WE SHOULD HANG OUT SOON.”
I AM ALWAYS THE ONE THAT INITIATES CALLING OR TEXTING
I FEEL CONFUSED AS TO WHY THEY REACH OUT TO ME BUT WON'T MAKE ANY PLANS
THEY RARELY ASK ABOUT ANYTHING GOING ON IN MY LIFE OR HOW I’M DOING
IT FEELS LIKE WHEN I MOVE ON AND DO THINGS WITHOUT THEM THEY SUDDENLY BECOME INTERESTED
IT FEELS LIKE IT’S A BURDEN ON THEM TO MAKE TIME FOR ME
THEY SUDDENLY BECOME INTERESTED IF THEY SEE ME OUT DOING FUN THINGS WITH OTHER FRIENDS
I FEEL LIKE WE HAVE A LOT OF FUN WHEN WE DO HANG OUT BUT THEN I DON’T HEAR FROM THEM
I FEEL LIKE THEY ARE HIDING THINGS FROM ME OR THINGS ABOUT THEIR LIFESTYLE
THEY WILL MAKE PLANS BUT THEN CANCEL LAST MINUTE
THEY WILL TELL ME THEY SO BUSY WITH WORK AND OTHER COMMITMENTS AS THE REASON THEY CAN'T MAKE PLANS
I FEEL LIKE EVERYTHING IS ALWAYS A MYSTERY WITH THEM
WHEN I FINALLY FOUND OUT WHAT THEY WERE DOING, IT HURT TO KNOW I WAS LEFT OUT
THEY HAVE FREQUENTLY LIED ABOUT THE REASONS THEY WERE SO BUSY OR COULDN’T HANG OUT.
I FIND OUT WHAT IS GOING ON WITH THEM VIA SOCIAL MEDIA OR OTHER PEOPLE
THEY ALWAYS ACT SKEPTICAL OF ME
I FEEL LIKE THEY ARE CYNICAL ABOUT EVERYTHING
THEY MAKE ME FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO PROVE MYSELF ALL THE TIME
THEY OFTEN GET A SMIRK ON THEIR FACE LIKE THEY DON’T BELIEVE ME OR ARE MAKING FUN OF ME.
I FEEL LIKE THEY QUESTION MY MOTIVES
I FEEL LIKE THEY’RE JUDGING MY WORTHINESS
THEY WILL STONEWALL OR IGNORE ME
THEY MAKE ME FEEL LIKE I’M NOT GOOD ENOUGH
I FEEL LIKE THEY THINK THEY ARE SUPERIOR TO ME.
I FEEL LIKE THEY HAVE,A LOT OF WALLS UP
I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO BREAK THEIR WALLS DOWN TO GAIN THEIR ACCEPTANCE
I FEEL LIKE THEY ARE SKEPTICAL OF MY IDEAS AND OPINIONS
I FEEL LIKE I AM ALWAYS “SELLING MYSELF” TO THEM
THEY ACT LIKE THEIR FRIENDS/FAMILY/COWORKERS ARE BETTER THAN MINE
THEY PUSH MY BUTTONS TO MAKE ME UPSET AND THEN JUDGE ME FOR GETTING OVERLY EMOTIONAL
I FEEL LIKE I'M ALWAYS OFF BALANCE AROUND THEM
I FEEL LIKE I CAN'T BE MYSELF AROUND THEM
THEY THINK MY FRIENDS/FAMILY/COWORKERS DON’T UNDERSTAND THEM
THEY ALWAYS CRITICIZING WHO I ASSOCIATE WITH
I FEEL LIKE THEY ARE "KEEPING SCORE" ALL THE TIME
THEY ALWAY TRY TO CORRECT ME ABOUT WHAT I SAY OR DO
THEY COMPLAINS ABOUT PETTY ISSUES FROM THE PAST OR CURRENT
THEY CAN BE VERY PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE
I FEEL LIKE IF I STOP WORKING FOR THEIR APPROVAL THEY WILL EXCLUDE ME OR LOSE INTEREST
I FEEL LIKE THEY HAVE A LIST OF THINGS THEY REQUIRE TO BE IN THEIR CIRCLE
THEY ACTS LIKE IT IS A PRIVILEGE TO BE WITH OR SPEND TIME WITH THEM
THEY LOVE TO LECTURE ME AND OTHERS
I FEEL LIKE I CAN NEVER TELL THEM THEY’RE WRONG
THEY ARE THREATENED BY MY SUCCESS SO I FEEL I HAVE TO DOWNPLAY ANY OF MY ACCOMPLISHMENTS/ACHIEVEMENTS
THEY ARE ALWAYS QUESTIONING MY CHOICES WITH A DISAPPROVING TONE (CLOTHES, CAREER, FRIENDS, LIVING SITUATION, VEHICLE, ETC.)
THEY ALWAYS WANTS TO KNOW WHO I AM TEXTING/TALKING/DM WITH
THEY WILL NEVER ADMIT THEY ARE WRONG ABOUT ANYTHING
I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO MAKE ALL THE EFFORT TO KEEP THE RELATIONSHIP GOING
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